My dear friend and respected sister in the teaching guild asked me to write a guest post to her blog. It’s about overcoming guilt and shame as a Korean-American pastor. Check it out and leave her a comment to encourage her!
Also, if you’re looking for a gifted woman speaker for an event, she’s fantastic.
I just recently read a simple book by Seth Godin called “Poke the Box”. There wasn’t anything that was revolutionary or mind-blowing about it, but its message stuck with me. Godin starts with the assertion, “The challenge, it turns out, isn’t in perfecting your ability to know when to start and when to stand by. The challenge is getting into the habit of starting.” The title comes from the image of a curious person who is presented with a mysterious box. Some people will sit there and just look at the box until given permission to do something with it. Yet others will poke the box, tinker with it, and see what it can do. Each time they poke the box, they will learn something about the box, and over time they will figure out what to do with it.
Think about that for a moment. Do you have a project that you’ve been meaning to get around to? A book you’ve been meaning to read? A conversation you’ve been wanting to have? Is there an idea you’ve had to make a difference in your neighborhood? How long have you had that on your to-do list? Godin challenges the excuses that we buy into that prevent us from getting around to doing that thing. A couple of the obstacles:
- Fear of failure – we are so afraid of failing at something that we don’t do anything. In fact, he says that the person who fails the most usually wins. This is different from having the biggest failure. It has more to do with attempting many times and having some success mingled in with many failures.
- The “Big” Factor – we fool ourselves into thinking that the project needs to be big, world-changing, have a name, logo, etc.
- Waiting for Permission – we think we need permission from someone out there to allow us to pursue our ideas.
- Loss of Curiosity – we’ve been desensitized with average products for average people and taught to not rock the boat.
- Avoidance of risk -Godin labels the natural defense mechanism, “lizard brain”. It’s the self-preservation instinct that keeps us from risking. By analogy, we want someone to draw us a map and then follow it, but real art and creation happens as you draw the map.
One of the unexpected blessings of living out here in Chicagoland has been the opportunity to meet a wide variety of people. The networks that God has put me in have been one aspect of ministry that I have come to cherish. I am so grateful to my church for placing such a high value on being a good neighbor in the community.
One such relationship is with the band, Reilly. Through a friend of a friend, I was put in touch with this band about four years ago. We had them come out to play at Annapolooza two years ago, and finally have been able to work out a way for them to come to CF for a concert and to lead worship. I love their hearts for ministry, for the Gospel, and their violin-acoustic rock sound. It’s been neat to watch their maturity as musicians as well as how they’ve grown as families (I’m talking about you, Dan and Nicole)!
We’re excited to host them at our church on Saturday July 23, at 7 pm. It’s a free concert with a love offering. Then, Reilly will stick around and lead us in worship on Sunday morning, July 24 at both our 9:00 and 11:00 services. It’s going to be a treat!
You can check out some of their music here.